On the latest episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Kimberly Menzies had waited enough.
She gifted Usman Umar a PS5 and a MacBook Pro. She took charge to salvage his music video shoot.
Now that Usman was no longer busy filming, she wanted what she came for: Usman.
Kimberly took a gamble by speaking up about her desires. They actually paid off … sort of.
“I want to see the big picture,” Kimberly told the confessional cameras on Season 5, Episode 7.
“You know, I want to see the kissing,” she stated. “I want to see him sleeping in my bed.”
Kimberly explained: “I mean, like, come on, bro, I need to know if that sexual chemistry is there.”
“I want to see how this relationship is going to work that way,” Kimberly reasoned.
After a day out of shopping and holding hands and being cozy with one another in public, Kimberly invited Usman to her room.
“You know, like, I came here to watch you and your video,” she said, “but I came here for another reason too.”
“You know what I mean? We have to get to know each other,” Kimberly expressed.
“So, I think you should give up your room,” she suggested, “and give it to somebody in your team.”
Kimberly told Usman: “I really want you to stay with me. I really do.”
Usman was not feeling it, continuing to view Kimberly as a “potential girlfriend” and saying that she was “rushing it.”
An unamused Kimberly asked: “Well, what If you don’t decide that until the last day? Then what? That’s so crazy.”
“It’s not like I’m begging you for sex or any s–t like that. Just forget it,” an unhappy Kimberly complained. “I really don’t know what else Usman could want.”
Kimberly and Usman sort of made peace, but were uneasy, with Kimberly refusing to hold Usman’s hand.
“Not” begging for sex and being turned down is always awkward.
Having to ride back together to the same place in the aftermath of that … honestly, it sounds unbearable.
Kimberly went to bed in her own room, and we were led to believe that Usman had done the same.
However, he had a change of heart, and went to visit Kimberly in her room.
(We have to wonder if he made sure that the cameras were there for that per his contract, or as an excuse to not “go too far”)
Kimberly was giddy as a schoolgirl (actually … in context, that’s not the best comparison to make) at Usman’s U-turn.
“He’s about to stay with me, finally. I’m really surprised that Usman changed his mind,” she admitted.
“But I am so excited. I mean, tonight could be the night that I have been waiting for,” Kimberly told the camera. “Like, please let tonight be the night.”
“So do you want to, like, watch a movie?” Kimberly asked, adding: “Just want to have sex?”
She half-apologized: “I just thought I’d throw that in there. I just thought I’d try.”
Usman declined, and in fact set up a Hadrian’s Wall of pillows to prevent even the temptation of touching during the night.
“I’m really happy that Usman decided to come into my room and sleep in my bed,” Kimberly told the camera.
“It shows me that he wants to get closer to me too,” she shared.
“But,” Kimberly admitted, “I’m a little disappointed that we are not going to have sex tonight.”
“I mean, we only have this time together before he goes back to Nigeria and before I go back to the States,” Kimberly pointed out.
“So it’s annoying that I have to, like, take these baby steps with Usman when we don’t have time for that,” she noted.
After Usman fended off some attempts to touch him, the two — fully dressed — rolled over to get some sleep.